Reference

John 12:12-15
When Expectations Don't Meet Reality

In this message we're invited to explore the profound theme of expectations versus reality. The story of Jesus' triumphant entry into Jerusalem, as recounted in John 12, reveals a powerful lesson about our own expectations of God, faith, and life. We often approach our spiritual journey with preconceived notions, much like the crowds, religious leaders, and disciples did on that day. However, Jesus consistently challenges these expectations, showing us that God's plans often unfold in unexpected ways.

This message encourages us to examine our unspoken expectations and to surrender them to God. By doing so, we open ourselves to the transformative power of Christ, who comes not to meet our wants, but to fulfil our deepest needs. As we reflect on this, we're challenged to embrace the unexpected nature of God's work in our lives, finding beauty and hope in His divine plan, even when it differs from our own.

Discussion questions:

1. How do our personal expectations of Jesus compare to how He actually reveals Himself in scripture and in our lives?

2. In what ways might our unmet expectations be hindering our spiritual growth or relationship with God?

3. In what areas of your life do you need to 'lay down your assumptions, plans, and need for control' and allow Jesus to work in unexpected ways?

4. What does it mean for us today that Jesus chose 'a cross, not a crown' and how does this challenge our expectations of what it means to follow Him?

5. How can we help each other in our faith community to navigate the disappointment, frustration, or anger that comes from unmet spiritual expectations?